We're born alone, and we die alone, but for some strange reason, it can be so intimidating to stand alone. The ability to stand in a crowd is a given; everyone is comfortable moving within the confines of the masses, following the steady flow. However, few are comfortable standing alone. Standing alone for what they believe in, standing alone in the face of adversity, or even simply being alone within their own minds.

I'm a strong believer in community and social engagement, and although I'm quite introverted in train of thought and my approach to social settings, I know that the path that blocks the way is the direction I need to pursue to grow. However, I also know that standing alone, being alone, and understanding the importance of aloneness are fundamental attributes in the search for happiness.

I've always enjoyed my alone time; I'm quite happy to potter away by myself. But sitting in silence and conversing within my own mind in solitude is a different story. Here is a moment of opportunity to dive deeper into our own understanding of self. The feeling of standing alone is ironic because the vast majority of our lives are completed alone, from sleeping, to eating, to thinking, to being. These things may seem somewhat overlooked, but the ability to find comfort within standing alone has the power to create a position of confidence, a position of drive, a position of authenticity, and happiness.

I know and understand the importance of this, and for myself personally I am constantly searching for answers within my mind to attain the train of thought. I am confident to stand alone in various aspects of my life. However, I am still wary of some, where I lack the confidence in whether I should be there, or my opinion is warranted, or I understand enough to participate. To truly be, express, and contribute to society for the greater good, I feel that aspiring to have the mindset of standing alone in whatever circumstance shows face, always presenting the most authentic version of ourselves. In that space I believe is a profound answer, to many of our questions, in the search for happiness.

Thanks,

Dean