I consider myself more of an introvert than an extrovert, and I think this has both an array of positives and negatives that contribute to my search for happiness. Some are fairly straightforward, like interaction in large social settings or comfort in solitude. However, both of these have an alternative reality and, for many, an alternative perception of their contributing factors in our lives.

Since I left my family home, and for as long as I can remember, I've almost tried to avoid contact with my neighbours. I'm not sure what exactly it was, just the idea of creating relationships with the people that lived next to me seemed strange and something I was opposed to, or more so, hesitant to commit to. It seems like such trivial things and ignorant to an extent. However, I think for many people, this is the case. Several friends and family members I have discussed it with have felt the same way.

During our latest move, I have made a conscious effort to be more involved in the local community and to get to know my neighbours. This conscious decision has led me down a path of learning, growth, and an understanding of both interaction with others, as well as myself. It has helped me to realize what I truly desire and highlight my incorrect thinking in the past.

I have met several of our neighbours now, interacted, discussed ideas, our lives, and a lot of building chat. However, the interaction itself and the exposure to this environment have created a euphoric feeling in my soul and strongly contributed to my search for happiness.

To many, this seems very insignificant, and for some, I'm sure, it seems silly. But for many, I'm sure, it resonates. It doesn't come from a bad place and there are no ill intentions. However, sometimes there are things that are just counterintuitive to our inner being's desires, and sometimes the voice inside our head leads us down a path that is actually less impactful on our lives - 'playing itself,' per se.

Sometimes, it is within moments of exposure to elements or situations of our lives that can contribute the most to our growth and happiness. Sometimes those aspects that we consistently try to ignore, or attempt to remove or eliminate from our lives. Those are the ones can provide the greatest opportunity for success in our search for happiness

Thanks,

Dean