The Search 4 Happiness

Day 271 - Review 27

1/21/20243 min read

Over the past 10 days, I have explored some new ideas around the search for happiness, as well as some previously explored concepts. Unfortunately, I almost missed my blog one night, which was both a sad, yet great opportunity to learn more about myself, the things I value as important aspects in my life, as well as the ability to bounce back and continue in the face of adversity, failure, or loss. I explored the fascination and my perception of the mullet, exposure and external influences, setbacks and elaborating on missing my post for the first time in this journey. I wrote as my catch up around exiting empire friends lives or vs versus. I finished with power, winning, as well as finally making my blog and new wed site live - thesearch4happiness.com.

The mullet - I've been feeling a strong desire to get a mullet, even though it has been considered taboo for a long time, because to me, this hairstyle represents freedom and the ability to fully embrace oneself, and I believe that hair is a form of art and expression that should be appreciated and celebrated.

Exposure - Embracing my introverted nature and overcoming my hesitation to form relationships with neighbours has been a transformative experience, leading me to discover the importance of connection and exposing me to moments of growth and happiness that I had previously overlooked or avoided.

Setbacks - After missing 264 days of posting my blog, I am filled with a strange mix of disappointment and reflection, as I realize the profound impact it has had on my personal growth and search for meaning, and how we often fail to appreciate what we have until it's gone.

Exits (Late) - The concept of an exit becomes ambiguous when our connections are based on deep-rooted, strong relationships constructed on mutual growth and understanding, as our memories, emotions, and universal energy continue to intertwine, keeping us connected forever.

Alcohol - The concept of sacrificing future happiness for present pleasures, specifically our experiences with alcohol and the potential positive and negative aspects it has had on our life and search for happiness. Acknowledging that while alcohol can be detrimental, it also has the potential to contribute to enjoyable experiences and connections.

External Influence - Happiness is a subjective state of mind, influenced by the value we perceive in external factors, and finding balance in embracing or rejecting these influences is key to our search for happiness.

Live - After months of contemplation and self-doubt, I have finally launched my website, thesearch4happiness.com, which serves as a revamped version of my blog aimed at reaching a wider audience and making a positive impact on our collective pursuit of happiness, overcoming my personal insecurities along the way.

Power - "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene captivates readers with its wisdom and debatable perception, revealing the treacherous path to power which, if approached with a misguided mentality, has the potential to cultivate darkness; however, it also offers strategic insights on seeking, obtaining, and maintaining power, emphasizing the dangers and distortions associated with power in our world.

Wins - Wins, big or small, hold immense significance in boosting our confidence, self-esteem, drive, purpose, fulfillment, and even gaining respect, while appreciating, recognizing, and valuing these victories play a crucial role in various aspects of our lives, be it as a team, an individual against an opponent or oneself, as they are a reflection of the efforts, dedication, and time invested which contribute to the ultimate reward of success.


Without even realising, I’ve found several key elements I didn’t truly perceive, but from a different angle, as well as discovered new ideas and concepts that contribute strongly in the search for happiness. This journey has had a profound impact on my and helped improve my perception, understanding, and growth in various aspects in my life, lives around me, as the universe itself.


Thanks,

Dean