I never truly knew what it was going to be like to have a daughter and what or how I would play the role as a dad. However, I did envision what it might look like, how it would make me feel, and how it would intertwine into my life. Everything I envisioned, everything I saw, everything I thought I would feel, and everything I thought I might become has eventuated, and so much more.

My daughter is a strong, intelligent, and beautiful little girl. She is clever, funny, and curious. She's creative, enthusiastic, and passionate. She encompasses a wide array of emotions and is a force to be reckoned with. It's quite unbelievable how a four-year-old can be so much already and develop so much every single day, and each day I learn more about her, myself, and what it means to contribute to the creation and development of another human.

One thing that I have learned as she grows older and learns more about the world is that, regardless of the situation, her experience, knowledge, or understanding of said situation means nothing. She can form her opinion purely based on the situation in front of her eyes, and at various moments in time, she has highlighted such observant, neutral, and real ideas or queries that have helped reframe my perception of the world and life in some ways. Of course, at moments in time, this has tested me to the limit. However, this newfound perspective and opinion on everything from a fresh perspective both helps me grow but also creates a new opportunity to configure my train of thought to understand things from a new range of points of view.

Carter is an incredibly significant part of my life, and obviously as my daughter, I am deeply devoted to her. However, regardless of that fact, she has moved me in more ways than she can ever imagine, helped me develop as a man, a father, and a human. She has contributed to my purpose and fulfillment and continues to do so on a daily basis. She already has a place in my heart and soul and has had a profound impact on my search for happiness.

Carter, I look forward to seeing you learn, grow, and develop into the person I believe you will become. Move silently in the shadows, listen deeply to the world, be kind, show compassion to all, and forever be wonderful and strong.

Love you,

Dad

Thanks,

Dean