Love languages are an interesting perception of key connection and understanding towards your significant other or within various types of relationship profiles. I first heard about love languages a few years ago from my wife and it was the first time something like this, which is such a simple, basic and important thing had a title and explanation for me.

I’m of the strong belief that your responsible for your own happiness because fundamentally it is something completely derived from within, however there is something both instinctual and universal within the relationships built with your significant other that plays a vital role in searching for meaning, purpose and can be a strong contributor to happiness.
I have been married for just shy of 10 years now and have been together with my now wife for all up around 14 years, almost half of my life now. As our relationship grows, we learn more about each other and through ups and downs we form deeper connections and navigate our paths through space and time together. One if the most unexplainable, yet logical and understandable truths, is our intuition with each other and the ability to feel, sense, understand and hear each others thoughts, ideas and emotions without any words or in some cases not even any physical interaction at all, becomes intertwined in our realities.
Obviously listening and understanding someone’s love language is very much a combination of the desire to learn and invest time into understanding what they actually look like and how to speak the language per se, but also good communication between one another is a key element.

Learning to understand someone’s love languages creates the ability to both seek growth within yourself but obviously if successful the ability to improve your relationship and hopefully create a more developed and thriving environment for yourself and your partner. I’m not a perfect by any means, I know that, but I do try to improve parts of me everyday within this realm and aim to work on all those areas that I’m lacking and a bit weak in.

I think part of creating a strong and balanced relationship is considering each others wants and needs and trying to find compromise where required to create a win, win scenario, but even more so, understanding what the fundamental links between each others true desires and key performances indicators is route towards the search for happiness for both yourself but also a contribution to your significant others.

Thanks,

Dean