There is something about the beauty of a rose that both fills and captures a piece of my soul. It possesses a beauty that adds to the elegance of nature while imparting a profound understanding of simplicity, authenticity, and wonder.

I often reflect upon the irony of picking flowers and plants to express our love for one another. The act of picking a beautiful bouquet to convey appreciation and affection is indeed beautiful, but it also means we are ending the flower's true beauty. It's only humans who can compartmentalize the gesture of gifting a flower from the consequences of uprooting it.

At times, to truly appreciate beauty and our own happiness, we need to engage in internal dialogue. We must realize that the beauty and happiness we witness may be unique to our own perception. When we remove something precious from its natural environment in an attempt to impress or display affection, we may lose sight of its essence. By losing sight of the initial beauty, what are we truly trying to convey? Is it a portrayal of love and affection or a misguided, self-absorbed depiction of our own supposed greatness?

In todays world, it is important to pause and reflect on the choices we make in expressing our emotions. We may find ourselves caught up in societies expectations and traditions, forgetting the deeper essence of our actions. By taking a step back to evaluate our motives, we can reconnect with the genuine appreciation we once felt.

Instead of taking a flower away from its natural environment, we could find alternative ways to express our love and affection. We could create an inviting garden where the beauty of flowers can thrive, drawing others into a shared appreciation for their natural presence. Planting and caring for these flowers would serve as a constant reminder of our love, manifested through nurturing and fostering growth.

By embracing the concept that beauty and happiness are personal and subjective experiences, we can learn to cherish them without the need for external validation. Rather than seeking admiration from others, we can focus on the internal satisfaction that comes from genuinely appreciating the beauty we encounter.

In the end, it is not about impressing others or showcasing our own greatness, but rather about nurturing a deep connection with the beauty around us. If we can remember that the true essence of love lies not just in the act of giving, but also in the respect and understanding we hold for the natural world and its creations then we are moving closer and deeper in the search for happiness.

Let true love speak from the depths of your soul, not from the gifts you display

Thanks,

Dean