The Search 4 Happiness

Day 92 - Comfort

7/26/20232 min read

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In today's modern world, we are surrounded by an array of comforts that make our lives easier and more convenient. From the clothes we wear to the entertainment we indulge in, from our shelter to the easily available food sources, the list of modern-day comforts is endless. While these comforts may initially seem like a blessing, upon closer observation, it becomes apparent that they can actually contribute to our inability to find true happiness.

Throughout history, humans have always sought ways to alleviate struggle and reduce hardships. This pure drive for improvement has led to various innovations and advancements that have improved our lives. However, it is important to recognize that the pursuit of comfort and convenience comes at a cost.

As we constantly strive for efficiency and effectiveness, we have created a world that is increasingly comfortable. But with this comfort, we have inadvertently reduced our ability to overcome challenges and experience personal growth. Without challenges, there is no sense of achievement; without difficulty, there is no opportunity for improvement.

One of the key elements I believe in the search for happiness is the ability to overcome obstacles, to feel a sense of growth and progress. When we are constantly absorbed with comfort, we become complacent and lose the motivation to push ourselves. We become lazy, weak, and lost of the drive that moves us forward. This state of mind and body can lead to an array of issues - from a lack of purpose and fulfillment to mental and physical sickness.

Happiness, in its truest form, lies in the journey rather than the destination. It is rooted in the sense of accomplishment that comes from overcoming challenges and obstacles. Without these hurdles to test us, we are left in a state of loss, searching for meaningful experiences and a sense of purpose.

This doesn’t mean we should remove all forms of comfort and revert back into the worlds of our ancient ancestors. It is just important to find balance, to appreciate what we have while also maintaining an environment that aspires for personal growth and challenges.

By intentionally incorporating moments of discomfort and challenge into our lives, we can create a deeper sense of purpose and find greater fulfillment. Whether it's learning a new skill, physical challenge, or immersing ourselves into an unknown situation, these experiences can remind us of our ability to adapt and capacity for growth.

While it is undeniable that modern day comforts improve our lives in many aspects, they can contribute to our inability to find true happiness. By becoming too dependent on comfort, we lose the motivation and ability to overcome challenges and experience personal growth. To succeed in the search for happiness, we must strive for a balance between comfort and challenge, appreciating the luxuries we have while also embracing the discomfort that leads to true fulfillment.

If you stay in your comfort zone, you’ll never know who you could truly become.

Thanks,

Dean