The Search 4 Happiness
Day 99 - Success
8/2/20232 min read
Success is a concept that has a vast range of different meanings for different people. However, it is commonly associated with acts of accomplishment or achievement of one's objectives. In today's society, success is often based on levels of wealth, power, and status. However, these aspects are externally driven factors and do not necessarily correspond to success or, especially, happiness.
From a young age, we are often encouraged to focus on careers that offer financial stability and prestige. As a result, many people believe that acquiring wealth and obtaining material possessions are the key elements of success and key drivers of happiness. This perspective is driven through celebrities, social media, and various advertising and sales techniques that push materialism as a key route to happiness and reiterate the importance of this avenue being key to success.
However, this narrow-minded train of thought fails to truly capture the essence of success. True success is a combination of various aspects of life: personal growth, meaningful relationships, and a sense of purpose. Setting and achieving personal goals, mastering new skills, and making a positive difference in the lives of others are all important components of success. While the ability to succeed financially and achieve what society perceives as high status can be deemed successful, especially the element of setting goals and devoting oneself in the pursuit of them, if your main reason is focusing on these external validation models, you can be left feeling lost and continuously in search of a deeper, more meaningful existence. Moreover, success is not limited to one area of life; it encompasses different realms, such as career, education, family, and personal well-being.
Happiness is not solely dependent on achieving success but rather on finding a sense of meaning and fulfillment in life. It is a subjective experience that differs from person to person. For some, happiness may be found in meaningful relationships and fulfilling work, while for others, it may lie in personal growth and creative pursuits. It is a continuous journey that requires self-reflection, consistent progress, and commitment to personal improvement.
Success is a concept that extends beyond material wealth and social status. It encompasses personal growth, meaningful relationships, and a sense of purpose. While success can be a fundamental element in the search for happiness, it is important to recognize that happiness is not solely dependent on external achievements. True happiness comes from finding meaning and fulfillment in one's life and aligning one's actions with their values and aspirations.
Thanks,
Dean